If a guy sees you having fun living the single life, he'll want to be a part of your life even more. You should enjoy the time you spend being single. You won't have it forever. If you want him to want you, then you have to flirt with him at least a little bit. If he thinks you're an i ce queen who doesn't want a moment of his time, then he'll quickly lose interest. So, flirt with him a little bit when you see him, but don't carry on too long.
Just m ake eye contact , smile , and exchange a few playful words before you say you have to get going. Don't be rude; just don't be too enthusiastic, either. Play with your hair while you talk to him. Laugh and look at the floor; let him see you blush just a bit. If you know each other well enough, you can give him a playful shove or a tap on the arm, that's really playing hard to get. If you want to play hard to get, then the guy can't think that he's the only person on your radar.
You should flirt with a few other guys without taking advantage of them or being too obvious about it; let him see that you're desirable and that other guys want you, too. This doesn't mean you should do anything untoward or anything that makes you look promiscuous; just let him see that you're happy talking to other guys too. Think of flirting with other guys as a way of keeping your options open. Guys want girls who are self-assured and come with a healthy dose of confidence.
No guy wants to date a girl who seems like she has a confidence problem so he can help her get over all of her insecurities. But the more you work on l oving who you are , how you look, and what you do, the more appealing you'll be to the guy. You want the guy to think that you're already awesome and that he'll just be adding to your awesomeness; not that you need him to make you whole. If you want to feel confident, then you have to look confident.
Walk with your head high, looking straight ahead of you, instead of down at the floor, and smile every chance you get. This doesn't mean you should dance on tables or laugh too loudly just to get some action from the male gaze. There is something sexy in a woman that is getting begged by a man. The mystery and excitement of the hunt comes into play when a guy does not know if a girl will finally fall to his charms. Despite playing hard to get to attract men, if played poorly you can lose t.
If you play too well, men think that you have no interest in them and slowly lose interest themselves. So, here are some of the tips you need to keep in mind to play hard to get with a guy. These tricks will keep up the mystery within the guy to know whether you are interested in him or not and he will keep chasing you. Find a middle ground While men enjoy thrill of the hunt, the woman become boring if chasing her is too easy. To keep the interest of a guy, a woman must know where to draw the line.
From the cycle immemorial women have been taught that men are attracted to women who are not available to them. While this may be true, it also true that guys may start to lose interest, if a woman is never at his disposal. If want to play hard to get with a guy, you need to show at one point that you are interested and at another point make him doubt this. Be available for some time, then take some time before you reply to his texts.
This will keep him hooked and make him chase you. Most women decide to play hard to get in the dating game. It is an effective method of attracting attention of the guy, but you should know how to get it hooked before he clings. Each guy appreciates a difficulty level and after that he may lose hope for you. He may think that he might not be able to impress you.
Keep him in mystery Flirt with the man constantly, but be sure to flirt with other guys in your neighborhood. Laugh at his jokes and tell him how handsome he looks, however, make sure he sees you touch other guys. This makes him understand that you are hard to get women and impressing you is not easy. Remember to not stop giving him compliments, else he will think that you are not interested.
Also, never stop talking with other guys to make him see the competition around him to impress you. Let him wait for you Wait for 10 minutes to return his phone calls. I began to address this very topic in a previous article, where I reviewed research that showed playing hard to get does indeed work. In general, being on the receiving end of someone else's aloof and uncertain signals does increase desire. But does that mean you should play hard to get?
Recent research has brought a bit more clarity to the question, finding that sometimes playing hard to get is a good way to build desire. On other occasions, it may backfire… What We Know Researchers Dai, Dong, and Jia investigated the question, "When does playing hard to get increase romantic attraction? Specifically, they suggested that playing hard to get might increase feelings of "wanting" in others a desire to pursue the aloof person but at the same time decrease "liking" positive feelings about the person.
The team hypothesized that playing hard to get might only work under certain circumstances—specifically, that such a strategy would only work when partners were already committed and emotionally invested in the relationship. In other words, if the person was not already interested to some degree, playing hard to get would not motivate them to chase. To test these hypotheses, Dai and associates performed two experiments: Male students from a Hong Kong University were asked to read a hypothetical date story, or meet a real woman in a speed date situation.
Women they read about in the story, or met on the date, either behaved in a positive, interested manner "easy to get" , or were passive and aloof hard to get.